Today is Memorial Day - a holiday in which we commemorate the members of our armed services those hurt or killed in action. As I sit here enjoying the day, I have to stop and take a moment to remember those who fought for our freedom and continue to do so. Today is for them.

Last year for this holiday I was in Riker's Island. It was hot and my cell was a humid 95 degrees. I was sad, alone and miserable. At that time I had been in jail for over 2 months with no idea when I was getting out. My friends were all gone and I really had no one. My then boyfriend was out partying with his friends and didn't pick up his phone when I called. I was hysterical sitting there wondering if I would have a life when I got out. I don't think I have ever felt more alone.

Now today I am enjoying the day, the people who I share my life with because they are all amazing. I get to look out at the ocean and see a world of possibilities and all the wonderful things that are now happening in my life. It only took a horrible experience to rid me of my demons and allow me to finally move forward and experience the good things. And I am very grateful to be able to do so.

For all of you reading this, happy Memorial Day. Try to spend today with those you love and are deserving of your time. I am :)